I'm Happy when I'm Missing You

So here's the Scenario for this post... or at least one Scenario.

2 People meet and for the sake of argument and the content of this post - let's just say they are 2 older people -

Why?

Because Older People have more Life Experience and Experiences.... Good and Bad.... and potentially -

More Baggage!

So these 2 people meet and right off they are all into each other and they get along and they learn about each other and things progress.

Maybe too fast - because - you see these 2 people each have their own set of Cautions and Warning Signs and Do's and Don'ts - and they ain't been around each other long enough to know what all those are and what they mean and how they affect how they feel and how they feel with each other.

So one or the other or both call a relational Time Out - a time to reflect and to perhaps "Miss" each other.

And during that Time Out - one says or texts to the other...

"I'm Happy when I'm Missing You".

Now WTF does that mean?

Well - for me - it could mean a lot of things on many different levels and with many different conveyances of levels of Emotion and Emotional Commitment to the budding Relationship....

Or lack thereof.

On a more arrested and potentially negatively or dimly lit path, it could mean I'm Happy that we're not meeting, i.e. that we're missing each other - in location - or proximity - as in A Miss is as Good as a Mile.

I'm Happy when I'm Missing You could mean I'm glad we took this Time Out because I'm realizing how happy I am or happier I am without you than with you.

Hmmmm..... Now that's interesting and obviously one interpretation of this many splintered and potentially relational splintering statement.

Ok - Door #2 please.

On a more positive and obviously deeper positive emotional level -

"I'm Happy when I'm Missing You"...

Could mean - It makes me happy to realize that I do actually Miss You; because that means I do have some level of Emotional Ties to You and I don't want to be done with you or undone from you at this time.

For many, who have been emotionally stagnant, dormant or damaged or at least intimately uninvolved for a long period of time, it may be refreshing and revealing to them personally to realize and acknowledge in this statement to their interested and interesting party, that they can still Feel Emotion and that Particular Emotion....

The Longing feeling One feels
From the Absence of Another
Kinda like Part of You is Missing
In the Missing Other.

Golly Wills - can't you stop the Poetry shit... I mean it's not like you're Robert Browning addressing Elizabeth Barrett Browning with a Love Letter.  Back on Point, Brittany!

It's kinda Sweet actually to be Missed and Wanted by Another.

I have often said that the Women that I am most Interested in are those that are....

Interested in Me.

That's kind of a Circular Equation with a Common Solution.

Oooh - that would make a good blog post!

Geez - Focus Wills - we're talking about Intimacy and Intimate Statements subliminally shared by Intimate or Potentially Intimate Partners.

Ok - Wills - roll out Part C.

"I'm Happy when I'm Missing You"

Could mean - Wow there's a lot of you to consider and I like that.  I've seen some of you but I know there's a lot of you I haven't seen yet and that intrigues me.  So yeah - when there's a lot to Discover there's potentially a lot to Miss.

I will say I've been subject to that kind of assessment a few times - you know the whole "Onion has many layers" thing or the Iceberg effect -

What you see is 1/10
Of what's there
And more of the surface thing
And not what's under where or wear.

He's shaking his head right now.

Mmmmm - Waxing Metaphorical are you Outback?

Naaa... just calling 'em like I Seez 'em or Seize 'em or Seize-Your.

So.  #5.... What else could be meant by or what other interpretation is there of....

"I'm Happy when I'm Missing You".

And yes - astute readers - I did skip #4 or D or the 4th bullet or the 4th Dimension - so just get over it cause that's the Way I Roll and We Tumble!

Speaking of Rollin', here's...

One Way I Roll....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RYnFIRc0k6E

WhazzzzzUp??? Not a Limp Bizkit fan.... Ok Ok for you Limp of Limb and Gluten Free who don't want to Rock and Hip Hop, here's another way I roll!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CbxuXq_981s

Yeah Yeah Yeah - Love FGL - but gotta throw in a little Cali Rap to finish the Roll at the Bottom of the Hill or at least the bottom of Hollywood.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7RzgZdXV24o

So where was I - oh yeah - the 4th Dimension Interpretation of -

"I'm Happy when I'm Missing You".

Probably something in the middle of all of the above and perhaps the most literal and most chosen interpretation -

I'm Happy that We feel comfortable enough with each other and that we're both mature enough with each other and ourselves individually to take a break from each other to think about and contemplate and ponder You and Me and....

What lies ahead.

How I feel about You.

How I feel about Myself with You.

How You make me Feel.

How You make me Fail.

Whoa - that was unexpected - Where did that come from Wills?

I told you I had baggage.

Geez - the Author is answering himself - that's fucking nuts or he's fucking nuts!

Let's Continue to Chase the Rabbit Alice.

What part I want You to play in my Life - (Remember the Whole Reason - Season - Lifetime thing?)

Funny how we twist words or how our words can be twisted?

And what can come of that - sometimes good but mostly bad.

And it's really not necessary because all one or the other has to say is....

"Help me understand what you mean by that."

In conclusion of this Interpretive Discussion on the Multiple Meanings of "I'm Happy when I'm Missing You", let me just say...

I love this kind of thing.

I love when a Woman talks to Me in Deep and Meaningful Ways or WordBites that Require or Solicit Thought, Interpretation, Inspiration and Discussion.

Because I value Intelligence and Communication above all things.

Yeah - I like Simple Speak too - and We will get there.

Because Language and Love and the Language of Love is not always Simple.

It Requires Time, Patience, Interpretation and Understanding to Learn and to Practice.

But I think it's worth it.

So when someone tells you -

"I'm Happy when I'm Missing You"

Talk about and Discover What They Mean.

It may Surprise You -

For Worse or For Better.

Peace to, Love for, Hope and Faith in -

Those We share Our Lives AND Words With.