Things that piss me off!
Good morning.
Was thinking about something from a recent conversation.
I really don't like it when people ignore me or my requests for info.
Cases in point.
Email requests to a person I have recently worked for requesting scope of work info.
Conversational texts to family members.
Communications to family members requesting counsel / guidance / discussion on important matters.
I would much rather have someone respond and say...
"Listen. I got nothing for you."
"I can't talk now."
"That is something I don't feel comfortable talking about".
That I can handle.
But f'g silence or no response.
That tells me...
"You are not even important enough to me to warrant a response".
And that pisses me off.
And, more importantly, it reduces my respect for those people administering the silent treatment.
It's obviously a model that is promoted and followed by today's tippy toe culture but I think it's stupid and disrespectful.
If you don't want to talk to someone or comment on something or provide help for a request....
JUST SAY THAT!!
I don't necessarily like being shunned at times but I respect the honesty and forthrightness in telling me that You are just not gonna respond.
At least that's a response.
Wish the rest of the World would do that....
Would make my life easier.