First off, I have only had the opportunity to meet Older Women because I moved to Santa Fe - which is like a Magnetic Mecca for Older Women... and Older People in general.
The Age Demographics or Average Age of the Population of Santa Fe IS NOT something I considered or used for in my "Data for a Future City to Move to" Selection Process when I was trying to figure out where to move to when I left the Gulf Coast of Texas.
And frankly, from the time perspective of when I made that selection, which was late 2014, I probably wouldn't have moved to Santa Fe if I had known the Average Age of the Population.
But you know what?
I'm glad I didn't know what I didn't know.
Ok, so, here's something else to consider. I've spent some time in the past trying to Confine, Define and Opine on what I'm looking for in a Woman or Women in general.... in specific.
Now - let me say right off Guys - if you want to turn a Women off OR get rid of her real quick just discuss or worse yet, send her a document(s) like the one I'm about to provide links to that outline in detail what you are looking for in a Woman. Women hate this kind of shit... so please guys - Do as I Say Do NOT as I Do!!!
I mean - Come On - it is pretty obvious to the non-emotionally engaged, non-Confirmation Biased Reader of any of these "Building the Perfect Woman / Compatibility Tests" posts that I am fucking kidding - It's all a big joke written tongue in cheek about putting together bits and pieces of physical, mental and emotional characteristics that COULD NEVER exist in one person.
And if they did exist in one Woman, that Woman would probably have some elements of Schizophrenia or Multiple Personality Disorder or ADHD or OCD or any / all of the characteristics I have been labeled with or questioned about by many.
So what does that mean - that I'm looking for a Woman like Me? Holy Shit - that's scary!
Regardless of Motivation, Intent or Desirable or Undesirable Effects or Balance of Consequences, here are the links to the referred to and much maligned posts:
https://willsonwheels.blogspot.com/2016/02/building-perfect-woman.html
https://willsonwheels.blogspot.com/2016/02/building-perfect-woman-part-2.html
https://willsonwheels.blogspot.com/2017/01/the-outback-willy-guide-to-compatibility.html
Despite these Definitions, Boundaries and Restrictions on What I Want or What I Think I Want -
Here's the deal with Me on Matters of the Heart and Preferences of the Personal and Female Persuasion.
I keep an Open Mind.
I take in New Information, New Data and New Experiences and Reserve the Right to Change My Mind.
You know me - I'm about avoiding Confirmation Bias
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias
at all costs and No Subject deserves the right to NO CONFIRMATION BIAS more than my interactions and relations with and preferences for...
WOMEN!
So here's an excerpt from the "Building the Perfect Woman" post:
- Age - Hmmmm - that's a hard one cause I live, think and act younger than I am.... but kinda like color and race I really don't have a preference or bias on age other than I'm no cradle robber which probably means they gotta be older than 40 and it would be hard to believe that anybody older than 60 could meet the other criteria listed..... so maybe 40 - 60.
Well it seems like I had a set Range of Age that I "thought" was appropriate for me.
Guess what?
I was wrrrr.....
That whole "Fonzie never being able to say he was Wrong thing" always cracks me up and reminds me of my ex-wife.... I mean ex-wives. Well - they didn't need this humor because they were NEVER WRONG - well except when they married me.
And stop already - stop asking in your mind - I will just answer you before you ask - I have had 2 ex-wives.... 2 is plural thus "ex-wiveS".
Moving on - in Life, Relationships and Discussion of Older Women.
And stop already - stop asking in your mind - I will just answer you before you ask - I have had 2 ex-wives.... 2 is plural thus "ex-wiveS".
Moving on - in Life, Relationships and Discussion of Older Women.
In short, new data and new experiences with Older Women have changed my mind.
I was WRONG!
There - I said it.
Now that we have all the introductory bullshit out of the way, let me tell you why I like Older Women:
First -
They are available!
And that has more than one meaning for me and especially in Santa Fe.
They are available!
And that has more than one meaning for me and especially in Santa Fe.
First of this First - they are available - because they are Older Women and retired and have that ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL ELEMENT to building a relationship.... or at least having fun.... and that is TIME!!
Fuck - they're Retired. They got nothing to do besides hang around with their other Female Friends, do Yoga, take a Hike and dance at El Farol on Tuesday nights.... Hang on - that's a lot to do already!
Oh yeah and sit around and think about Men and how Time is Ticking away and they need to make the most of what they have left - which includes having a Man in their Life.
It's so funny because I find myself hearing the same line / complaint from some Older Women all the time...
"Santa Fe has so many more Women than Men. It's like 8 to 1. It's hard to find a Good Man in Santa Fe".
This makes me laugh cause I'm not sure these women that say this are very Maze Bright because they're standing there talking to an Eligible, Ready and Willing Man and lamenting that there are No Good Men around.
WTF?
Needless to say, the Older Women that say this fall off my Radar Screen pretty quick.
So I guess there are 2 elements of Availability of Older Women in Santa Fe that make them Attractive to Me -
Retired and Ratio (of Older Women to Older Men),
i.e., there are lots of them and the competition is thin.
Geez - did you just BustARhyme Will-i-am!!!
Retired and Ratio (of Older Women to Older Men),
i.e., there are lots of them and the competition is thin.
Geez - did you just BustARhyme Will-i-am!!!
Ok - What's #2 Wills?
Well - they are Gorgeous, Fit and Sexy.
Yep - You heard me right. I have met more 65+ and 70+ Women in Santa Fe that look like they are 50 to 55 minus than I can shake a stick at.
And yes - they actually look better than most of the Women I meet that are my age. I'm not sure of why this is other than when you delve into it - which I am apt to do in anything that interests me - you find out that these Older Women are Young Warriors in Body, Mind and Spirit.
They practice Self-Discipline in their Eating and Drinking Habits, their Activities, their Workouts and their Physical, Spiritual and Mental Quests for Excellence.
They not only Want to Be Healthy and Look Good BUT also take Actions and Put Significant Effort into the Practice and Application of Being Healthy and Looking Good.
And let me tell you something folks - that is the Sexiest Fucking Thing to Me there is. Well maybe the 2nd or 3rd Sexiest Fucking Thing - more on this subject later.
And Speaking of Fucking....
Ok - Ok already - I'll keep this post R-rated vs X-rated and move on....
So what else.
Almost all of the Older Women I have met in Santa Fe are Highly.....
INTELLIGENT!!
Ok - that is the #1 Sexiest Fucking Thing to Me because I'd rather Fuck a Beautiful Mind than a Beautiful Body anyday but Hell - like I said - you get Both with these Older Women in Santa Fe.
I mean, it never ceases to amaze me - I start talking to these Older Women and they either have Great Educations or Great Vocations and / or both and they know about Art and Literature and History and Politics and Project Management and Diet and Nutrition and Exercise and Philosophy and Spirituality and Oh my....
My Heart, Mind and Body, collectively, just Swoons at their feet and I find myself looking up to them like Goddesses of Truth and Knowledge....
and I grovel at their feet.
Well - not really - most of my groveling occurs about halfway up....
Ok - there's that R vs X thing again.... keep it together Wills - but I'm just saying. It goes back to that Younger Body - Older Woman thing.
What else?
What else?
Oh yeah - they are COMMUNICATIVE!
There's that #2 Priority right there - right after Intelligence.... Communication.
They like to Cuss and Discuss - I'm sorry - let me digress a minute. This is gonna sound Weird.
I like it when Women cuss - and I don't mean Gutter Cussing - I mean Intelligent, Discussion-based Cussing. I think it's as sexy as a Perky Nipple. So here's my take on....
I like it when Women cuss - and I don't mean Gutter Cussing - I mean Intelligent, Discussion-based Cussing. I think it's as sexy as a Perky Nipple. So here's my take on....
Anyway - where was I? Oh yeah.... Communication and Older Women.
Maybe I selectively weed out the Talkers from the Non-Talkers as far as Communication goes or maybe my own Penchant for Communication sends the non-Talkers Walking - I don't know - but what I do know is that the majority of the Older Women I meet like to talk.... and listen....
And that is a Very Cool and Sexy Thing to me.
And maybe it's because they are Older Women that they like to and want to communicate. I kinda think it's conjugally linked to the whole Intelligence and Tenure thing.
These Women are Smart and they've Lived Life..... Longer than a lot of People, tragically in some cases.... Longer than their Husbands and Realistically and to My Point and Reference to Preference....
Longer than Me.
Which brings up my Final Point on Why I Like Older Women....
They are WISER than Me.
Yep - that combination of the Zest and Zen for Life, the Pursuit and Capture of Youth at an Older Age, the Intelligence, the Independence, the Attitude and the Desire and Ability to Communicate and Relate ALL OF THAT Contribute to that Undefinable Attribute we refer to as....
WISDOM!
And if there is One Thing I Lack and Seek in this Life it is....
WISDOM.
wis·dom
ˈwizdəm/
noun
- the quality of having experience, knowledge, and good judgment; the quality of being wise.
synonyms: sagacity, intelligence, sense, common sense, shrewdness, astuteness, smartness, judiciousness, judgment, prudence, circumspection; More
- the soundness of an action or decision with regard to the application of experience, knowledge, and good judgment.
"some questioned the wisdom of building the dam so close to an active volcano"
synonyms: sagacity, intelligence, sense, common sense, shrewdness, astuteness, smartness, judiciousness, judgment, prudence, circumspection; More
- the body of knowledge and principles that develops within a specified society or period.plural noun: wisdoms
"the traditional farming wisdom of India"
synonyms: knowledge, learning, erudition, sophistication, scholarship, philosophy;
lore"the wisdom of tradition"
Yep - I want all of the above.
And that's what I seek and why I seek it and find it and learn it from....
Older Women.
There's a lot more to this Continuing Saga and Journey of Why I like Older Women than meets this post or my eye or hand or any other part of my body, and I realize I am just getting started in this New and Welcome Relational Detour in Life.
And who knows....
Maybe it's not a Detour at all.
But just part of a New Path of...
Discovery.
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